Taking it from this perspective,
Out of anger, A woman slaps a man. What will you call that?
Still in anger, A man tries to slap her back, he pauses, held her softly and kisses her. What will you call that?
Answered simply. You being in control of your emotions.
When you are in control of your temperament, you are matured.
Maturity is on the mind.
Based on my studies, I have come to know that a man has an in-born temper to act in anger on issues but when a man decides to control his temperament in order to create calm, he is not stupid. He is a real man.
But a woman who hit her man. What will she be called them? Real woman? Absolutely NO! Same applies to the man.
Both must have emotional intelligence.
“Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy”.
So I ask..
For what do you get angry?
Is okay to be angry but controlling it, is not easy; rather, it is excellent when it is controlled.
There is an evolution. The society has transcended and still transcending, both must respect and have equal love for one another.
The man shows the woman respect a man gives, and the woman shows the man respect a woman gives. It’s reciprocal.
Both have to be real. A real man and a real woman. That’s the simple logic.